My 2 cents.......
I appreciate that the Mods do what they do and overall do a good job. So thank you Mods. No I don't want your job and no I am not trying to be overly critical with the following.
That said, I wonder if maybe mods should do their "modding" strictly in private with offenders. Maybe some private warnings are happening and we just don't see it. However, if there is a combo of private and public messages, it gets confusing to all of us, which I think is clearly happening with this situation. In this situation, I see a a mod giving a warning of a timeout to two people if they don't stop. Then both parties come back, each with a snipe. Moderator comes back and only 1 party gets....."banned/time-outed"??? None of us seem to know which, if its a lifetime or a week ban.
Personally, I think all the "public modding" is confusing and more importantly, creating nothing but drama, keep it in private. If you want Shaggy to create a "ban list" with an explanation as to why someone is banned, so be it. But stop doing dirty laundry in the threads, nobody likes public shaming.
Again.....my 2 cents....ban me if you must for doing so.