Receivers gesticulate and jibber jabber over interference and then the late flag comes out. There are other examples of *****ing followed by late flags. The NFL is the only sport I can think of where *****ing can get you a retroactive remedy without the benefit of a formal play review process. As long as refs do that, expect the players to *****.
I've not watched much NBA since the Bird-Magic-Jordan era. I find the drive-and-shoot or drive-and-kickout-for-3 game, best exhibited by the James Cavaliers, to be tedious, but I digress. I have tuned into a few of the NBA finals games in recent years to watch Curry. I find the non-stop on-court b*tching over calls and non-calls even more tedious than the style of offense. What makes matters worse, and what surprises me the most, is the announcers breaking down calls and non-calls on every other play. It's out of control.
I don't see much *****ing to umpires in MLB. There's some back-and-forth on pitch calls but it is typically brief and cordial since questioning a pitch call is sufficient cause for ejection which is uncommon. Words are chosen carefully. Not much has changed in this regard since forever. Now that MLB has replay for non-pitch calls, instances of managers getting up in an umps grill, kicking dirt on him, tossing bases and other hijinks are way down. Baseball is genteel in this regard compared to the NFL or NBA, while the NBA is a mess.
Perhaps some solace can be taken in the fact there remains NO *****ING to officials in professional golf.