So I had to watch this all back...
Rodgers isn't attacking Jaire as many have claimed here and in news media. He 100% attacked the concept of speaking a loss into existing in the mind (loss to the Jets). That logic doesn't sit well with Aaron, and while tempered thoughts I'm all for, Jaire I think knows he misspoke...even him saying "Now if we lose two in a row with similar problems without any fixes I'll get worried" is much more palatable than what he said.
As for Slaton the only actual direct quote I can find anywhere is this "I think we were a little too dialed in at times with the plan and what we practiced. We knew what we were going to see, and I think we were just getting a little lost. We were getting a little lost when we didn’t see what we were practicing." That is not throwing smoke or mud at anyone's face, it more or less is stating the obvious - got outplayed, didn't adjust and make them react but instead we were having to react type message.
Preston Smith I think handled the loss the best in handling it as a "no excuses, we must do better" mentality. When given the chance to use travel as an excuse he shot that down quickly. More need Smith's approach to this all, make no excuses, do better and accept defeat head on.
Aaron Jones merely said "I'd put my money on me and AJ getting two yards with two downs..." but was quick to follow that with Aaron is the QB and he doesn't see what he sees. The first part is mere confidence in him and AJ's abilities - the second part is a pure respect nod to it isn't his call.
This is not a team falling apart - this is a team frustrated in defeat, in a defeat NONE of them feel should have happened. This was a different feeling than the MN loss because Giants did not put forth a performance in many opinions which should be a W against this team.
ALL that said, I agree with many of you in saying Slaton's comment and to an extent even Rodgers and Jones' need to occur behind closed doors....cuz dissent can grow quicker when media gets fingers in it than if it is in the locker room disclosures.