I think there’s a good healthy respect that comes with bashing each others brains in.
It’s how us guys win respect. We might irritate the crap out if each other, but once we’ve just went in the backyard and beat each other to smitherines there will never be a full respect.
This long testament is for you
@Voyageur!! You’re always telling good stories. I learned this at the tender young age of 21yrs. My older brother used to bounce at bars. He's only 6’1X225lb but he’s strong as an Ox, his best friends were all in powerlifting competitions and I’ve watched him bench 315X10 Once he came over my house and harassed me because I got fired from a job and didn’t tell him. He went to my work just to stop by and found out and I guess it embarrassed him. He tried to take that out on me and I weighed like 185lbs soaking wet. But he forgot I wrestled for 4 years in HS and trained in Korean Martial arts for several Summers but at that time I weight trained 5 days a week and had disproportionately strong legs for my size. I’d tell you what I leg pressed back then, but you wouldn’t believe me. I’ve won $$ betting people on several occasions over the years on leg lift challenges. So I used that training and proceeded to Fireman carry my Brother Gary “Gar Bear” into a literal spinning helicopter ride into a wall. At which time I rode him like a bull on the ground and each time he tried to get up I chopped him back down. Today they call this Juditsu… but I was going a crude freestyle back in 1990!
He eventually overpowered me 5 minutes into all that, but his face was as red as a Cherry he was so exhausted. Now at that point he could’ve probably killed Me, but he underestimated me when I’m mad and I think it scared him a little. Don’t ever F with a guy who just lost his job! Sorry I still have flashbacks of RED!
He’s never talked down to me like that in 30 years since. So a deep love and respect is earned with some punches and a can of WhoopAsz